How to break up with your boyfriend politely

We have all been in a relationship with people we don’t have emotional connections with and would rather be friends with, instead of breaking up in an immature or violent way address it in a polite manner.

Contrary to the popular believe that all breakups must be brutal, painful and filled with betrayals, Gloria Faj shares tips that would guide through a mature and honest breakup.

Do not gossip

As girls it is almost natural for us to gossip, as such making us to tell others that we are calling off a relationship even before our partners know about it.

It is totally wrong to breakup with someone and tell everyone first before you inform the person.

Talk to him privately

Have a mature conversation privately, this way everything down to the most personal bits ciscussed.

As two adults, we can do away with all the drama that comes with breakup publicly.

No sugar coating, Be Frank!

Go straight to the point.

Be frank but don’t be brutal… You can state all your points and reasons and still be friends with your partner.

Never “use the its not you it’s me” line. It can trigger a million kinds of emotions.

Give actual reasons why you desire the breakup

Do all these things and you can walk the sidewalk and still wink and say hello to him.

READ ALSON.. 5 Gestures Of A Husband Who Will Love You Forever

Ladies! These Are 5 Gestures Of A Husband Who Will Love You Forever

A man’s behavior shifts with his feelings (yes, we have feelings). If he’s mildly interested in you, he acts a certain way. If he hates you, he does certain things. If he really doesn’t care, it shows. Well, here’s what your husband will do if he’s in love with you (and will be forever):

 

1. He sacrifices for your smile

 

You’re the light of his life, his better half, the spring in his step. He’s happy when you’re happy, so he goes as far out of his way as he needs to to make sure you’re smiling. He sacrifices his time, resources and abilities to make your day.

 

You know he’s a keeper when he puts your happiness before his own. In the ideal situation you feel the same and do the same for him. That being said, married life isn’t always going to be full of butterflies and rainbows (as you well know).

 

2. He tells you the ugly truth to help you grow

 

When hard times roll around he works through them with you. If there’s a problem in your relationship, he brings it up early on and tries to fix it with you, without holding it against you. He understands that he’s far from perfect, so he goes about conflict resolution humbly yet directly.

He tells you what needs to be improved without making you feel bad about yourself. You know he does it out of love, not malice.

 

3. He appreciates a burnt meal

 

He recognizes your efforts and is sincerely grateful for them. He doesn’t take you for granted. He knows full well how much of a catch you are (and you know he knows). When you literally burn a meal, he doesn’t mind. He smiles, chuckles, says “thank you” and eats it anyways. You know it turned out terribly, but he says it’s really not that bad.

 

4. He’s still dating you

 

He never really stopped. He’s still trying to learn about you, and he makes a sincere and intentional effort to keep the spark in your relationship alive. He’s still asking you questions. He’s still trying to put his best foot forward for you. You still go out on dates. He takes you to dinner, out to ice cream or to the movies. He holds your hand. He kisses you on the cheek. You cuddle on the couch. He listens to you, learns and remembers even the quirkiest things about you.

 

5. He calls you out of the blue

 

Maybe he has a five minute break at work – he calls you just to see how you’re doing. He likes the sound of your voice and wants to make sure your day is going well (see #1 on this list). What your husband does when he has nothing else to do is very telling. It shows where his priorities are at. If he spends that down time with you, even if it just means binge-watching romance movies, he’s sticking around.

The Number Of Teachers Who Die Every Month In Lagos Will Shock You

An average of 10 teachers die each month in the post-primary teaching service of the state accroding to the Lagos State Teachers’ Establishment and Pension Office (TEPO).

 

Mrs Sewanu Ayodele-Amosu, the Permanent Secretary of TEPO, made the disclosure on Tuesday at a Sensitisation Seminar and Capacity Building on Healthy Living for Post-Primary Teaching Staff of the state.

 

According to Vanguard, she said that apart from sudden collapse resulting in either temporary or permanent confinement in bed, the disturbing rate of deaths among teachers in the state called for concern.

 

According to her, in spite of the prevailing economic situation in the country, there is, arguably, scantiness of knowledge on healthy living.

 

“This is another contributory factor for this worrisome adverse health condition of the teachers.

“This health seminar will be held quarterly to educate teachers on the importance of healthy living and to provide support for those that have health challenges.

“This seminar is designed to effect real behavioural changes among staff of the post-primary teaching service and promote capacity for maintenance and sustainability of good and vibrant health,’’ she said.

 

The Lagos State Deputy Governor, Dr Idiat Adebule, said the state government would continue to pay adequate attention to the needs of teachers as it recognised their role to humanity.

 

Adebule said that the Ministry of Education was working with the Ministry of Health to issue Health Cards to teachers to enable them to access prompt medical care at the state’s health institutions.

 

“The health card will be part of the requirements for promotion as a way of motivating our teachers to go for regular health checks. 

“I urge you to take out time and take care of yourselves and your health because it is only when you are healthy that you can deliver efficiently,’’ Adebule said. 

 

Also, Mrs Mary Adenikinju, a health expert, advised teachers to exercise regularly, eat less of processed and cooked foods and eat more of vegetables and fruits. 

 

Mr Adedayo Famakinwa, Lagos State House of Assembly Committee Chairman on Establishment, Training and Public Service, said that teachers were curators of the future and were expected to be healthy in mind and body.

Women Caught On Camera “Hiding Sweets” In Their Panties At A Mall

Two women were caught on camera “hiding sweets in their underwear” in bizarre shoplifting scam… Dressed in skimpy short dresses the pair were spotted on the supermarket’s CCTV cameras. Local media reported that the police are currently looking for the thieves with the footage released in the hope of identifying them.

Man Beats Wife with Machete After Allegedly Catching Her Cheat!ng

In this shocking footage, a man nearly killed his wife by repeatedly beating her with a panga machete after allegedly catching her Cheat!ng.

The nearly killed the wife with a panga machete

A man has left people in great shock after he unleashed his evil side on the wife after accusing her of Cheat!ng.

Although, it is not known the circumstances of the Cheat!ng, the man brought the woman out in public and used a panga (a large hatchet-like knife) to beat the wife mercilessly.

He also used the machete to beat another woman who tried to save the wife. The incident took place in one of the African countries.